What is the happy reality of our generation?
08.06.2025 06:28
Your parents chose your career path and also your profession. Aptitude be damned.
Computers were just creeping in and opposed by the Labor Unions.
South Indian Cinema had great actors and story lines that we could relate.
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It was very very hard for the general category people to get seats in the few Engineering and Medical Colleges in the State, let alone the IIT’s.
Growing up in this decade.
The big Cities have gotten bigger and is almost unlivable now, traffic wise.
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I will also assume that this question is posed vis a vis my generation and compare that to conditions faced by generations today.
Women in India seem to have more freedom, even as they feel more afraid of the general environment.
Bank Jobs were highly sought after.
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Indian industry started to make cars and other goods.
Everything is available today without any delay. You have the money, you got it in today’s India.
I know that some will cavil that I am ignoring I. K. Gujral, Chandrasekhar, Deve Gowda, Morarji Desai, even the redoubtable A.B. Vajpayee’s stint as PM. But bear with me, for the moment. This is done on purpose and to make comparisons simpler.
Study of Law (so important in my Dad’s generation gave way to Engineering and Medicine)
> River Dams, Public Sector undertakings, Five year Plans galore, HMT, HAL, ITI etc. gave us the aam aami the euphoric feeling that we were on the right track to our deserved place as a great power in the comity of nations.
>Both Central and State. Most of the Leaders were educated in the finest traditions of liberalism, often at Oxford and Cambridge and they had sacrificed their ‘cushy futures” for the cause of independence. When country’s rule passed into their hands, what would one expect?. Little if any corruption at the highest levels, or at least the perception of it.
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People got married the old fashioned way (mostly).
Young Kids have a lot of money these days and are getting married much later.
Boys and Girls these days are not afraid to be friends to each other (My opinion overall a good thing)
What are some things that children used to wait for, but are no longer common in today's society?
Even though inflation was rising, there was a semblance of stability in the daily routine of everybody. The institutions and arms of the Govt. worked for the most part. Judiciary, Police, Govt bureaucracy etc.
Foreign goods, forget about it, mostly sold in black markets.
There is a general atmosphere of intolerance towards minorities, with people unafraid to say things that would’ve been unthinkable in my day.
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Now folks on Quora have undoubtably heard the so-called term “Boomer Generation” used in the US. Interestingly enough these time periods dovetail quite nicely with “Indian Conditions” as well.
Live in relationship; Divorce (almost unheard of in my youth) don’t raise an eyebrow.
Very few boys strayed and even fewer girls.
What made you feel satisfied about your life today?
There are Engineering Colleges in almost every street corner, it seems.
5 Star hotels are dime a dozen.
2014- Present
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> India’s population was around 365 million.
2014- Present ( Modi).
Nehruvian: I belong to the Nehruvian Generation.
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Education has gotten so much more expensive.
Hindi Cinema had some great songs and tunes, even if many of us in the South especially didn’t understand such words as Ishq, Waqt, Zulf in the Hindi songs.
1964- 1984–1991 ( Roughly Indira/ Rajeev Gandhi)
It was to me, anyway, a relatively chaste period.
The first flush of enthusiasm of the Nehruvian age soon turned into despondency as Public Sector Industry after Public Sector Industry were all running in losses.
And then we did not have Google, Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram.
The first flush of aaya rams and gaya rams were creeping into the body politic of our legislature and that is when I left for the USA and that was almost 50 yrs. ago.
Ministers etc. were the only ones to have the Indian Flag on their bonnets. (Don’t know why?)
Live-in, LGBTQ, none of these made the headlines.
On a personal level.
I’m going to attempt to taxonomy “Generations” in India as below.
We had to wait for everything. Cars, Scooters, you name it. Nehru’s socialism meant that like the Soviet Union that he admired: There was a wait list for everything.
There are also proliferation of IT cells that offer an altered reality of the world, as they would like to see it and not as it really is.
As far as the vast majority of Indians, who lived from hand to mouth, there was hope and relief in a plethora of laws passed.
Foreign Exchange were so hard to come by in case you had to go abroad.
Import Substitution was the mantra.
1947–1964 ( Post Independence Generation). (Roughly Nehruvian)
The middle class was small, but not that stressed from inflation etc.
IIT’s had just been established.
Many Indian Journalists have now been co opted so that they too are now in the money making business and currying favor with the powers that be. So how objective can their writings be?
Pluses:
Five Star Hotels were not as ubiquitous as today.
Medical Insurance have proliferated along with US style expensive Doctor Bills.
Boys and Girls were strictly segregated.
Also, the Indian Economy while growing fast, is not able to provide jobs for sizable number of young men in the nation and that is a problem.
> The horrors of Partition meant that the Govt would make sincere efforts to put all that behind us and accommodate all faiths.
Now of course,Today Secularism to many is a dirty word and so is Socialism;
Govt. careers, such as IAS, IPS etc. very quickly gave way to Engineering /Medical degrees in the newly developing India (At least in the South).
Newspapers also heavily censored themselves- clashes were referred to as “communal disturbances” between two communities. No details.
> “Secularism” was dinned into our ears until it became “second nature”, to most of us anyway.
Schools were fewer. Universities even fewer.
The Airports have gotten better and nicer.
Indian Media is being controlled by a few business houses and the news especially foreign news is presented in a slanted way to suit the way, the Govt. would like it to be seen or not seen at all.
Redefined
> Leaders such as Nehru, Rajaji, Morarji Desai etc. were held to the highest standard and they fulfilled that expectation. The idea that they were corrupt was unthinkable, any more than the thought that one’s parents had sex with each other. It was an age, in retrospect, of “innocence” and not just at the level of us kids.
> Indian Political leaders, for the most part, were all men and some women of the highest educational and moral Calibre at all levels.
Hospitals everywhere in India, with excellent care offered.
> Idealism reigned supreme, about the Govt. and it people and why not?
Love marriages were all to be ‘gasped at’ so rare were they at that time.
> We grew up basking in the first flush of the pleasant prospect of an “Independent” resurgent India.
Life went on in essentially as a late 19th/early 20th century mold.
Thank you for the question. Ms. Priya C.
I will first attempt to use the nomenclature used to distinguish “generations” -albeit from a Desi Slant.
There was no TV… Doordarshan of very poor quality only reserved for New Delhi.
South Indian Films have now gained an All India Traction and seems to be edging out Bollywood, as it portrays less of a fake India than Bollywood.
1991- 2014 ( P.V. Narasimha Rao/ MMS)